I Hate Budgets
Every January, I would set up a perfect spreadsheet. Color-coded. Formulas for everything.
By February, I had abandoned it.
The Problem with Perfection
The issue wasn’t the tool. It was the mindset. I was trying to track every penny instead of automating my behavior.
The “Pay Yourself First” Method
Instead of tracking coffee purchases, I set up auto-transfers.
- Paycheck hits checking account.
- 20% automatically moves to Brokerage.
- 10% automatically moves to Savings.
- I guilt-free spend the rest.
This shift from restriction to automation changed everything.